I thought you might be amused by this:
There is one easy shorthand for working out where someone stands across the fantasy gap: if she is a woman, she can generally manage without it. Which is maybe what was happening as I snoozed through the Doctor: I was being put in touch with my feminine side.
It's getting increasingly difficult to keep up with my immutable biologically determined gender role these days. I thought fantasy was supposed to be for girls? How recently did it become Daily Telegraph conservative commonplace that imagination and airy-fairy stuff is boys only?
Sigh. Anyway, I guess it boils down to 'get back in the kitchen ladies'. It always does.