I suggested that a certain person, who shall remain nameless to spare his blushes, should be 'played by' Felicity Kendal, on account of I wanted to pick someone who had that nice aura she's got. And then I thought - why did I automatically think of a female actor? Can a performer be male and 'nice'. Can a nice man be attractive?
I think it's very easy for a man to be nice and sexy. There's nice/dumb and nice/clever - and they both appeal.