Dislike of porn doesn't necessarily mean fear of sex. Dislike of a religious book doesn't mean hatred of religious ideas. It might even mean your standards are high.
Ah, but what is good and bad when writing about sex or religion? I know some sexy stories that I read and like are hated by other people (stuff I wrote about sex is probably hated too). I know some religious stuff that I hate, is liked by people whose opinions I respect.
But the porn I hate - ah, that really is bad :-)